What is Your PQ – Purpose Quotient?

(Quotient Quizes #25)   A perceptive teacher noticed one day that a little girl was having trouble with her math assignment.  She knew that the girl was shy and wouldn’t ask for help.  The teacher went to the child and offered her assistance.

After she had helped the child work through the math problem, the little girl thanked the teacher.  The teacher replied, “That’s one of the reasons I am here.”  The little girl thought about that for a moment and then asked, “What’s the other reason?”

What is the reason you are here?  God doesn’t make mistakes and put people in the wrong place.  He creates people and gives them a plan and a purpose. 

I live in a state that loves sports.  Players and teams work hard and train for the purpose of performing well in a game.  Champions are not made in the middle of a game but in the middle of practice for the game.  Big victories are always the result of a series of small decisions made in practice sessions.  Legendary basketball coach John Wooden said it’s not the will to win that’s important – it’s the will to prepare to win!  Winners prepare because they know why they are there. 

A couple of years ago, University of Oklahoma’s coaches gave a blank iPad to all its players.  They handed out digital playbooks the first of August.  Each player was to take the iPad and write out what that player thought would be his purpose on the team.  I like the response of Michael Honnicutt, who was Oklahoma’s Senior kicker.  He said his purpose is to “kick the ball through the uprights.”

One of my favorite people in history is George Washington Carver.  About 50 years ago, I bought a mantle for our house from an old store in Tuskegee where George Washington Carver went every day.  He and a group of men would drink coffee sitting around the fireplace.  I wish that mantle could talk!  I keep a couple of peanuts on it. 

George Washington Carver had many career opportunities. When he finished his doctorate at Iowa State, he chose to go to Tuskegee Institute.  The salary was small, but he knew his purpose in life came from an invitation from Booker T. Washington to work and make a difference.  He knew why he was going to Tuskegee. 

George Washington Carver wrote, “No individual has the right to come into the world and go out of it without leaving behind him distinctive legitimate reasons for having passed through it.  I pray my work at Tuskegee became my reason for living.”  He made a difference, not only in Tuskegee, but the world, and he always knew it was God’s purpose for his life.

I have heard about a beautiful highway outside of Bryson City, North Carolina.  People refer to it as the “road to nowhere.”  It was intended to be a highway between Bryson City and Townsend, Tennessee, but environmental concerns stopped the project.  People who travel the road talk about the beautiful scenery, how smooth the highway is, but it is simply going nowhere.  It comes to a 58 Million dollar dead end at an uncompleted tunnel through a mountain.  God created everyone with a life designed to go somewhere – fulfilling the purpose He has for us.

At age 12, Jesus knew His purpose.  When His parents found Him in the Temple teaching the Pharisees, He said, “Don’t you know that I must be about my father’s business” (Luke 2:49).  On the last night that He lived, Jesus prayed in the garden, “Father, please let this cup pass from me.  Nevertheless, not what I want but what You want” (Mat. 26:39).  Jesus knew why He had come, and His Father’s purpose for His life was His focus.

What is your reason for being here?

What is your PQ – Purpose Quotient?

What is Your LQ – Legacy Quotient?

(Quotient Quizes #24) When people think back on your life, what do they remember?  What lasting legacy are you leaving? 

Many people will be remembered for different things.  James Henry Smith was a zealous Pittsburgh Steelers fan.  But before he died of prostate cancer at age 55, he outlined specifically how he wanted to be remembered. 

When he died, Smith’s body was placed in his recliner, his feet crossed and a remote in his hand.  He wore black and gold silk pajamas, slippers and a robe.  Cigarettes and beer were at his side, and a high-definition TV played a continuous loop of Steelers’ highlights.  Friends at the viewing said it depicted him exactly as he was in life.  That is a unique legacy – but pitiful.

Jack Reynolds is from northern England.  He celebrated his 105th birthday in April 2017.  He wanted to ride a roller coaster and be remembered as the oldest person ever to ride a roller coaster.  He had a sweatshirt printed which said, “It’s my party and I’ll scream if I want to.”

Jack actually changed his idea of how he wanted to be remembered.  At 104, he got a tattoo.  At that time he wanted to be remembered as the oldest man ever to get a tattoo.  That’s a unique legacy – but pitiful.

Some people live their whole life and never do anything significant.  Leslie Ray “Popeye” Charping of Galveston, Texas, died of cancer at age 75.  I doubt he’ll be missed by many people because his family wrote an on-line obituary that said he “lived 29 years longer than expected and much longer than he deserved.”  His family wrote that his hobbies were “being abusive to his family . . . and fishing,” and his life “served no obvious purpose.”  What a sad commentary on a person’s life.

We don’t know how many days we have to live.  Some have a few days, some have many more.  Each of us is making a legacy to leave.  Each of us is doing things for which we will be remembered.  It’s a good thing to stop and ask ourselves, “How will folks remember me?”

We remember Judas because he betrayed Jesus.  We remember King Agrippa because he was almost persuaded to be a Christian.  We remember Herod’s daughter because she was responsible for the beheading of John the Baptist.  We remember Lot’s wife because she disobeyed God.  History is filled with people who left bad legacies.

There are also people who left great legacies.  We remember Moses because he obeyed God and led His people through the Red Sea.  We remember Shadrach, Meshach and Abednego because they obeyed God, and He delivered them from the fiery furnace.  We remember Enoch because he walked with God.  We remember Esther because she confronted the king and saved her people.  We remember Dorcas because she was full of good works.  We remember Peter because of his powerful preaching at Pentecost.

We remember Paul because he fought a good fight, finished the course, and kept the faith.  We remember the woman who bought the most expensive perfume and used it to wash the feet of Jesus.  We remember a poor woman because she gave what was the smallest amount to others but turned out to be the biggest amount to God because it was everything she had. 

We remember Jesus because He lived a perfect life, died a sacrificial death for us, rose from the grave on the third day, and is alive today.  We remember Him today because He ascended into Heaven and promised that He would return.  His legacy lasts forever and ever and ever.

How will you be remembered?  What is your LQ – Legacy Quotient?

 

Let’s Get It Right!

Should we say “Under God” in our Pledge and should our coins bear the motto “In God We Trust”?  That is a continuing legal debate.  Sacramento atheist Michael Newdow entered three law suits saying that God should be removed from the Pledge and the coins.  He says the phrase alienates non-religious people in the U. S.

An initial ruling in 2002 by the Ninth Circuit Court of Appeals agreed with Newdow.  Later they reversed the decision stating that the phrase “Under God” can remain in the Pledge of Allegiance because the phrase is religious but does not represent a prayer.  A similar ruling was issued about “In God We Trust” being our motto on our currency because it said the use of “God” is ceremonial and patriotic, but not religious.

I am glad the Court reversed itself, but I regret it was done for the reasons stated.  I hope God never just becomes a patriotic or ceremonial term.  That has never been the case in the history of mankind, and specifically in the history of the United States.

The prophet Amos wrote, “For thus says the LORD to the house of Israel: ‘Seek Me and live’” (Amos 5:4). The psalmist David wrote, “Unless the LORD builds the house, they labor in vain who build it; unless the LORD guards the city, the watchman keeps awake in vain” (Psalm 127:1).

The first pilgrims made it clear that the colonies were being established “to the glory of God.”  The framers of our Constitution recognized the role of God in our independence.  Benjamin Franklin said, “The longer I live the more convincing proofs I see of this truth:  That God governs in the affairs of men.  And if a sparrow cannot fall to the ground without His notice, is it probable that an empire can rise without His aid?”  Thomas Jefferson said, “The liberties of a nation are secure only when there is a firm conviction in the minds of her people that these liberties are the gift of God.”

That doesn’t sound like God’s name was being used as ceremonial or patriotic.

The Preamble to the constitution of each of the fifty states contains some reference to God. Forty states specifically call Him God, while the other 10 refer to Supreme Ruler, Creator, Supreme Being, etc.

This debate was pretty hot at the beginning of this century.  A lot of that quickly changed when 9/11 occurred.  I understand that congressmen and government leaders on 9/12/01 quit debating about the use of God in public settings and joined hands on the Capitol steps and started praying and singing “God Bless America.”  Baseball stadiums dropped the traditional 7th inning “Take Me Out to the Ballgame” and replaced it with “God Bless America.”

It is amazing to me that we even debate this issue.  We are here because of the goodness and grace of God.  We will survive and prosper only as we accept God’s grace and goodness and live appropriately.

When Francis Scott Key penned our National Anthem, he ended that first verse with a question, “O say, does that star-spangled banner yet wave o’er the land of the free and the home of the brave?”  I believe that is a legitimate question to ask today.  Most people don’t know that there are other verses to the National Anthem.  Most people think the next verse is “play ball.”

The last verse ends with these words – “Then conquer we must / when our cause it is just / and this be our motto: ‘In God We Trust.’”  Scott Key ends that verse, not with a question but a statement.  When we know what our motto is – “In God We Trust” – the future is not a question.  That verse ends with the affirmation, “And the star-spangled banner in triumph shall wave / o’er the land of the free and the home of the brave!”

Francis Scott Key got it right!  The Bible got it right!  Our forefathers got it right!  Isn’t it time we get it right?

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What is Your VQ – Value Quotient?

(Quotient Quizes #23)   Sir Ernest Shackleton spearheaded an expedition to the South Pole.  The group ran into tremendous trouble and unexpected circumstances.  Lives were in jeopardy as they started to return to safety.  It became necessary to discard many of the items they carried with them in order to survive.

Sir Ernest began to notice the way his group chose what they would hold onto and what they would discard.  The first thing to go was their money.  It was not as important as life.  The second thing to go was the food they carried in their backpacks.  They discarded everything that added weight and hindered their survival.  The items they chose to carry with them were pictures of their loved ones and letters from home.   

We have to make decisions about the value of life in relation to the things that we choose to carry with us.  While we are not on an expedition to the South Pole, we make those kinds of decisions every day.  It may not always be for survival, but our decisions about values do determine the quality, fulfillment and meaningfulness of life.  It is a challenge to avoid hanging on to things of little value and discarding things of great value.

We remember well the Olympics in Rio last year.  Athletes spent years of rigorous training (and a huge portion of their lives) to win a gold medal.  Even though the gold medals were only gold plated, they are greatly valued by all athletes!

A recent report is showing that those medals are beginning to fall apart.  Like many Olympic facilities in Rio, the medals are disintegrating and losing their value.   We all make value decisions about the things that are important.  Some things in which we invest our time, energy and resources are not really things that increase in value. 

In May 2017, a man from South Dakota saw his apartment complex on fire, and he knocked over police and firefighters to get back into his apartment.  He actually interfered with emergency workers.  When he came out of the building, he was hand-cuffed and charged with obstruction.  The man, Michael Casteel, 56 years old, barged back into the apartment building just to get two cans of Bud Ice Premium!  He risked his life and the lives of others to save two cans of beer.  Sad!

Be sure you know what things are valuable in life and what things are not.  Lloyd Jack and Ruairi Gray are 22-year old students in Scotland.  They were visiting an art exhibition and decided to see how much people knew about real values.  These two guys bought a pineapple and placed it on an empty display stand as a joke.  They came back four days later and found that the fruit was now encased in glass and made part of the modern art exhibit.  They paid $1.30 for the pineapple, and the “experts” had obviously mistaken it for real art.

Jesus honored a woman who dropped in the smallest amount into the treasury when He said she knew about value – it was the best she had.  She knew value.  A rich man asked Jesus about how to enter the Kingdom of God.  He chose not to follow Jesus because he was not willing to give up his money.  He didn’t know about value.  Jesus invites all of us to follow Him.  We discover the greatest values in life when we “seek first His kingdom, and anything we need will be given to us” (Matthew 6:33). 

Here are some valuable questions:  If life is like the expedition to the South Pole, what are you going to discard and what are you going to keep?  Are the medals that you compete for each day deteriorating or gaining in value?  What are you willing to go back into a burning apartment to retrieve?  In choosing your values of life, can you differentiate between false displays and the displays that have value?

What is your VQ – Value Quotient?

What is your PQ – Purpose Quotient?

(Quotient Quizes #22)   When were you born?  That’s a question I hear more today than I’ve ever heard in my life.  The reason is that so many business establishments have gone to the birth date as the key to a person’s identity.  I was recently at a hospital, a bank, and a chain store, and instead of asking for my driver’s license, they asked me when I was born.  They entered that into the computer and immediately came up with my records.

When I was born is important.  More important is – why I was born!  We need to know why we are here.  We only have one life, and it must count.  God has a plan and purpose for each of us.  Jeremiah says, “‘For I know the plans I have for you,’ declares the LORD, ‘plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future’” (Jer. 29:11).  Jesus said, “I have come that you might have life and have it in abundance” (John 10:10).  Life is not a merry go round of meaningless activity.  Life is not a series of things that help fill up the day.  Temporary busy-ness can be the greatest enemy of eternal business.  (Tweet this)

When the people of France put Louis XVI and his queen to death, they set a new course of action for France.  A little boy was left behind who would have been Louis XVII if the monarchy had stood.  The people wanted to break the spirit and the future of the little boy by placing him in a prison with deplorable conditions.

They intentionally placed vile, vicious and vulgar men in his presence.  Their intent was to infiltrate his mind with vulgar thoughts so that it would translate into vulgar actions and words.  They wanted to teach him bad habits – especially with his language.

But the plans of those men never worked out because that young boy knew why he was born.  When they tried to get him to do something wrong or say a bad word, the boy would simply reply, “No, I will not say it, I will not do it.  I was born to be a king.”  Born to be a king – that was his expectation, and it motivated him to fulfill that purpose.

One of the great women of the Old Testament was Esther.  When the king of Media-Persia, a huge empire with 120 provinces stretching from India to Ethiopia, was looking for a queen, he was introduced to Esther.  She was beautiful and gifted.  He didn’t realize she was a Jewess.  He made her his queen.

When an evil man constructed a plot to eliminate the Jewish people, Esther’s cousin, Mordecai, came to her and said she needed to go to the king and divulge the sinister plot in order to save her people.  She reminded him that anyone entering the king’s chamber without an invitation would be executed.  That included the queen.

Her cousin continued to plead with her for the sake of her people.  He reminded her, “And who knows but that you have attained your royal position for such a time as this?” (Esther 4:14)  She then realized why she was the queen.  When she discovered why she had been born, Esther knew what she had to do.  She saved her people.

One of the great men of the Old Testament was Nehemiah.  What gave him the purpose and expectation of rebuilding the walls of Jerusalem?  Everyone considered that to be an impossible task.  There were a lot of evil people who did everything they could to stop his progress (Neh. 6:2).

One day he faced the temptation of giving up this task God had given him.  Some people tried to discourage him.  They told him to come down from the wall.  His comment was that he was doing such a great work that he could not come down.  He knew why God had put him in that place at that time.  When our life is driven by a great purpose, we can’t stop what we are doing.

Expectant, purposeful living produces the greatest joy, satisfaction, and meaningfulness in life!

Why are you here?  What is your PQ – Purpose Quotient?

What is your EQ – Expectation Quotient?

(Quotient Quizes #21)   What you expect is what you get.  If you don’t expect much, you don’t get much.  If you expect a lot, get ready to experience more.  The good news is – you can lift your level of expectation!

I read about Dr. Henry Baker.  He taught a freshman class of physics.  About half of his students would fail his class.  At the beginning of each quarter, he would tell them that about 50% would fail in order to prepare them for the shock so they wouldn’t be disappointed.

When talking with some of the other professors, Dr. Baker noticed that nobody else had that rate of failure.  Somebody raised the whole question of expectation.  Dr. Baker decided to do something different.

He began the next quarter by telling his students that oftentimes 50% of the students failed, but he knew that this group was going to be different.  He could tell that they had more initiative, more drive, and more desire.  He felt certain that every student could pass.  He set a high level of expectation for them.

Guess what – he discovered that not a single student failed, and that the lowest grade was a “C.”  He didn’t change his style of teaching, nor his tests, nor his grading.  He only changed what he expected of the students.  They measured up to the level of expectation he set for them.

I read about a study of Southern textile mill workers several years ago.  Two new supervisors were put in charge of departments.  One supervisor was told that his department had been a “problem” group and that he would have trouble getting them to produce.  The other supervisor was told that he was being put in charge of the most efficient, productive department in the mill, and he could expect excellent results from them.

Most of the workers were at about the same level of ability, but there was a vast difference in what was produced.  The supervisor who had the “problem group” kept telling them about the problems, and he created more problems.  The other supervisor kept encouraging his people and motivating his people with high expectation levels, and they kept producing.

People have a way of measuring up to the level of expectation.  Good leaders are people who have high levels of expectation.  I discovered in church that the more you expected of lay people, the more they would serve and give and produce new levels of meaningful ministry.  The same is true in business, athletics, academics, and life.

Read the short New Testament letter to Philemon – just 23 verses.  Paul is writing to Philemon to ask him to receive Philemon’s slave Onesimus in a new relationship.  Onesimus had been converted under Paul’s ministry.  Philemon was to receive him back, not as a slave, but as a brother, to serve in the church.  He makes a good case to Philemon indicating that he could tell Philemon to do it, but he wants him to make that decision himself.  Forgiving a slave and receiving him as a brother was a huge expectation.

Paul lifts the level of expectation when he says in verse 21, “I know that you will do even more than what I say.”

Lifting the levels of expectation can be one of the most exciting, productive, and meaningful steps that we can take in life.  Complete the following sentence:  This week I expect . . .

What is your EQ – Expectation Quotient?

What is your TQ – Trust Quotient?

(Quotient Quizes #20)  Life is a choice.  We can trust in what we think is best, or we can trust in God.  Every day, we have those two choices.  While the world teaches us to trust in ourselves and the world systems, that will not ultimately bring joy.  Trust in God carries with it huge rewards in this life and in the life to come.

This is addressed by the writer of the book of Hebrews.  In Chapter 11 he describes faith and trust as “a certainty of what we hope for is waiting for us even though we can’t see it up ahead (v. 1).  Faith is always something that is confident assurance that something we want is going to happen.”  

Look at these words – confident assurance.  It is a certainty.  That’s God’s possibility for us when we make the right choices.  The writer of Hebrews then gives about 20 examples from history.

Noah was told to build an ark.  He didn’t ask questions – he just put his trust in the fact that God knew what He was doing (v. 7).  Genesis 6:22 says, “He wasted no time and built the ark.”  The rest of the people at that time put their faith in the world systems, and they died.  Noah and his family were saved. 

I love the illustration about Joseph (v. 22 -).  As he was coming to the end of his life, he could confidently speak of God bringing the people of Israel out of Egypt.  In fact he was so sure of the security of his faith and trust, that he made them promise to carry his bones with them when they left Egypt.  It came true.  That’s certainty – no bones about it!

The writer records how the people of Israel trusted in God, and not their own instincts, and went through the Red Sea as though they were on dry land (v. 29).  The Egyptians had another mindset.  They only believed in what they could think about and visibly see.  They chased Moses and his people.  Moses was right and lived – they were wrong and drowned.

Jericho was thought to be an impenetrable city.  It was by trust that the people saw the walls come “tumbling down” after they had trusted God and followed His plan of attack (v. 30).  He even used a prostitute, Rahab (v. 31).  She was confronted by God and believed in Him and His power.  She did not die when all the others in Jericho did die, when they refused to trust God.  She chose to trust Him by giving a friendly welcome to the spies.

Throughout Chapter 11, the people who trusted God had huge rewards.  Some of those rewards were recognized in their life on earth.  It is quite clear in verse 39 that when they trusted God, they did not receive all the rewards He had promised them.  He had even better things prepared for eternity.  Abraham trusted God and followed Him, not knowing where he was going.  The reason he trusted God was because he was confidently waiting for God to bring him to that strong heavenly city whose designer and builder was God.

We can insert our names into that chronicle of people in Hebrews 11.  We have a choice.  Trust in God means we are putting our faith in something that we cannot see.  We are willing to go against the prevailing cultural values.  But trusting God is the only thing that ever wins!

In days past, people made decisions based on these two choices – trusting the world or trusting the Word.  We do the same today.  The quality of life now, and for eternity, is determined by that choice.  When doubt occurs, trust in God is just a transition to an even greater reward that He has for people who trust Him.  Hebrews 11 is a record of the results of this choice.  The results haven’t changed a bit!

It’s trusting time!  What’s your TQ – Trust Quotient?

What is Your WQ – Word Quotient?

Words are the tools we use to communicate.  New words are recognized each year by the Oxford Dictionaries.  Some words are old.  Some words change.  Some words have different meanings in different languages.

English has produced a lot of words that are difficult to explain.  For example, there’s no egg in eggplant; nor ham in hamburger; nor apple or pine in pineapple.  English muffins were not invented in England; nor French fries in France.  We speak about quicksand, but it works slowly.  Boxing rings are square; a Guinea Pig is neither from Guinea nor is it a pig!

You have to understand the meaning of words to know what they are communicating.  In English we drive on our parkways and park on our driveways.  People recite in a play and play in a recital.  We talk about shipping by truck and sending cargo by ship.  We have noses that run and feet that smell.  We talk about someone having a slim chance or a fat chance, but they both mean the same.

Words can be extremely confusing.  The New Oxford Dictionary has included some new words for 2017.  One new word is “haterade.”  It is a noun, and it means excessive negativity, criticism or resentment.  Our world is already loaded with haterade.  Take that word out of your vocabulary!

Another new word is “fitspiration.”  It is a noun and refers to a person or thing that serves as motivation for someone to sustain or improve health and fitness.  We need a lot of fitspiration, especially in the spiritual realm.  Add that word to your vocabulary!

 “Yas!” is a wonderful new word this year.   It is an exclamation that expresses great pleasure or excitement.  Living life in God’s purpose everyday will prompt you to exclaim “YAS!” really often!

Some words are not new, but they have a tremendous impact.  The best way to build a good life is with already existing words like love, forgiveness, faith, trust, truth, hope.  These are old words but they can give new meaning to life!

The Bible teaches us that words are powerful.  Words can either build or destroy.  We are reminded that “sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never harm me,” but that is a falsehood.  “Haterade” words can be extremely harmful or damaging to people.  The best words ever to receive and give are “God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son that whosoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life” (John 3:16).  Words carry power when we hear “I believe in you.”  Powerful words are when you hear someone say, “I love you.”  One of the great words is God’s promise that He has plans for you.  Read Jeremiah 29:11-13.

Allow me to rank some very important words: 

The 6 most important words – “I’m sorry, I made a mistake.”

The 5 most important words – “I am proud of you.”

The 4 most important words – “What do you think?”

The 3 most important words – “I can understand.”

The 2 most important words – “Thank you.”

The 1 most important word  – “We.”

The least important word  – “I.”

We have to choose our words carefully.  It’s a terrible thing to speak wrong words when we should have remained silent.  You can’t take back words.  You cannot un-ring a bell.  “Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen” (Eph. 4:29). 

What’s your WQ – Word Quotient?

Forgive and Live

After writing recently about forgiveness, I received a lot of responses.  One person said that when he learned to forgive, it was a key that unlocked a future for his Christian growth.  Another person said it was the most important thing he had learned.  Forgiving opens a door for a new relationship with God and with people.

A couple of people raised the question, why should I forgive?  Let me offer 7 reasons – 

1.      We must forgive because the Bible teaches it.  Matthew 6:14 says that if we forgive other people, God will forgive us.  If we fail to forgive others, God does not forgive us.  Wow, that’s dangerous.  We seek God’s forgiveness, but it becomes real when we forgive others.  Someone has said that forgiveness is the fragrance a violet sheds on the heel that has crushed it.

2.      We forgive because unforgiveness is a sin.  We don’t like to think of it in those terms.  We would much rather identify sins with sexual infidelity, murder, stealing, lying, etc.  1 John 3:15 equates unforgiveness with murder.  Putting a nice dress on unforgiveness doesn’t change its nature.

3.      We forgive because revenge will never even the score.  It differs from the world.  While the world might say we treat “an eye for an eye,” the Christian approach is “an eye for forgiveness.”  If we live by “an eye for an eye,” then the world would be blind! (Tweet this)

4.      We forgive because forgiveness is an expression of strength and Christian character.  The German philosopher Friedrich Nietzsche really confused people about forgiveness because he described it as “forgiveness is for weaklings.”  He felt that forgiveness was bowing down to the feet of those more powerful than you were.  That is a gross misunderstanding.  It takes extraordinary courage and strength to forgive.  

5.      We must forgive because unforgiveness is hazardous to our physical, mental, emotional and spiritual health.  Unforgiveness creates anger and resentment.  It brings a huge sense of guilt.  Studies are showing that physical pain is directly related to unforgiveness.  Studies also show that heart rate, blood pressure, and other factors react negatively to unforgiveness.  Physical pain can be the result of unforgiveness.  It can create emotional insulation and a selfish attitude.

6.      We forgive because it drastically changes the future.  Forgiveness does not change the past, but it drastically changes the future!  Forgiving helps us to move on and no longer be held captive by the shackles of the past.

7.      Some people confuse forgiveness with forgetting.  I read a Sunday School lesson in which David Housel pointed out that the idea of “forgive and forget” came from Shakespeare and not the Bible.  He reminds us that we are made to forgive, but we were not made to forget.  God has the capacity to totally forget.  Read Isaiah 43:25 and Hebrews 8:15.   Forgiveness changes the whole necessity of forgetting. 

In the 1990’s, one of the great movements in our country was Promise Keepers.  My life and many of my friends were impacted by that ministry founded by Coach Bill McCartney.  The movement centered on receiving the forgiveness of God and the willingness to forgive others.  Coach McCartney developed a powerful formula that he used at all the PK conferences to help people know something special about God, themselves, and God’s purpose for their lives.  His formula was “forgive + give = live.” 

It’s time to FORGIVE and LIVE!

What Is Your CQ – Count Quotient?

(Quotient Quizes #18)  Do you remember as a kid playing the game seeing who could count the highest?  You would get to some huge number, then your opponent would add another number to it?  Nobody could win because there was always a higher number.  Is there any limit of numbers when counting? 

That game might have taught me that estimating was easier than counting.  I was always accused of being able to estimate more people at a gathering than the actual number there.  At Frazer, we could have 5,000 people counted in attendance, but I could estimate there were at least 7,000!  Our ushers would always take the headcounts instead of my estimate.  I should have been hired to estimate the recent Presidential Inauguration crowd! 

The Catholic Church in Norway got into trouble recently because of the way it counted people.  In Norway, the government subsidizes religion, so the numbers influence their financial aid.  They were fined $142,000 by the government.  The church was actually taking Polish-sounding names from the phone book and padding the parish lists. 

They recorded 65,500 new members for the Diocese of Oslo from 2010 to 2014, but they discovered that 56,500 were added through questionable methods.  Some U.S. churches also practice that evangelism strategy! 

I have always wondered about how some things are counted.  After I had hip surgery, as a precaution, I had to take some very heavy antibiotics for 6 weeks.  The doctor suggested that I also take some probiotics because antibiotics would deplete a lot of good things out of my system.  The probiotics would replace them.

When I went to the store to inquire about probiotics, they asked me what kind of count I wanted.  I figured one pill per day.  They said, “We have pills that have 5 billion, or 30 billion, or 50 billion, or 80 billion count.”  I chose the 80 billion count because I figured, “the more, the better!”  I was curious and wanted to check out the count on one of the pills, but I can’t even count to 80 billion!  How do they do that counting? 

I also have gained a little weight since my surgery.  I think I have found the reason.  Each good bacteria must weigh something.  If I’m adding 80 billion of those little things each day, that’s where my weight gain has come from!  Maybe I need to cut back to the 5 billion count!

Count the things that really count, and don’t count the things that don’t really count.  Ask God to help show you the difference.  Maybe knowing what to count is more important than how to count.  Read Matthew 6:19-34.

Counting the right things puts us in the right frame of mind to live each day.  If you count the wrong things, you’ll discover you’ve got more burdens, problems and challenges than really exist.  Count your friends, count your blessings, count your opportunities, count your Kingdom endeavors . . . etc.

Through my participation in the Billion Soul Vision events, I met a fascinating man, Bruce Buckingham.  It was his voice that you always heard on television counting down when space shuttles were launched from Cape Canaveral, Florida.  I always kidded him because he counted backwards. 

He told me about the different microphones in his ears and computers in front of his eyes.  He would count “T-minus 10, 9, 8, 7, 6, 5, 4, 3 . . .” and then a decision had to be made – “Go / No Go.”  When he said “2, 1,” you would see the blast off to the moon or an orbit around the earth.  The lives of astronauts were dependent upon his precise and accurate countdown.  He could count backwards and never made a mistake!

Copy my friend, Bruce Buckingham.  Countdown – 5, 4, 3, 2, 1 – and blast off to a blessed day that counts!

What is your CQ – Count Quotient?